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i recently had a sex with a female massage therapist. I used 2 condoms while having sex with her. After the sexual intercourse, though my fluid evacuated, i didnt give up and hit her for 10 secs,and as i put the condom out i touched the outside part of the condom which i used with her and also used the same hand while taking out the fluid ( to rub the fluid ) of the forehead of my penis. Also i used the towel of the massage therapist to remove the fluid of my penis which i didnt know may be the massage therapist had used it earlier for the same kind or any person having sex with her might hav used that towel to rub the fluid out of his penis. It\'s been 4-5 days since i had a contact. i now fear may be i may have transmitted the hiv syndroms, will u please help me is hiv syndrom transmitted on me? should i get a test now only before 3 months? as too have 100% hiv conclusive test one should wait for 3 months? i dont know what should i do now. please help me

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HOW TO PUT ON A CONDOM

  1. Open the packet carefully so that you do not damage the condom. Do not test the condom by unrolling, inflating or stretching it; it has already been tested by the manufacturer.
  2. If the condom does not have a teat at the end, unroll 1 cm of it to leave a space at the end for collecting semen
  3. Pinch the teat or the 1cm length that you have left at the end of the condom to expel any air.
  4. Hold the condom over the tip of the penis and with the other hand unroll it down to the base of the penis.

To prevent contact of any body fluids between the partners, put on the condom as soon as the penis is erect or hard.

   
 

HOW TO TAKE OFF A CONDOM

  1. After ejaculation, hold the condom firmly around the penis whilst withdrawing, to prevent spillage of the semen.
  2. Slip the condom off the penis carefully. Wrap it up and throw it into the rubbish bin or chute.

To prevent spillage of semen, withdraw the penis before it gets soft.
 
 

PRECAUTIONS

  1. Use only rubber condoms for protection against sexually transmitted infections.
  2. Do not use a condom after its expiry date. If this is not stated, then do not use condoms that are more than 2 years old.
  3. Keep condoms in a cool, dry place, not in for example your car's glove compartment
  4. If you want extra lubricant, buy a water-based one like K-Y jelly, Top gel.
  5. Do not use saliva as a lubricant.
  6. Also do not use oil-based lubricants like vaseline, oils, grease and moisturizing lotions.